The traits in you that the “bad” people in your life complain about will ultimately also be called out by the “good” people in your life.
In the difference between complaining and calling out, you will find the difference between “bad” people and “good” people.
Complaining expresses dissatisfaction with a general tone of victimhood, while calling out expresses dissatisfaction with a general tone of agency.
Complaining reinforces the status quo, while calling out promotes change.
The issue requiring change is objectively present but subjectively used to filter the people in our lives.
It is wise to move on from labeling people to exploring how your rough edges can be smoothed.
– Osasu Oviawe