In every moment of your life, you are present as the doer, the thinker, and the observer.
The doer executes, the thinker assesses, and the observer improves.
Discipline serves the doer.
Goals serve the thinker.
Discernment serves the observer.
All three are always available to you whenever you are ready to lock in.
– Osasu Oviawe
Problems are inversely proportional to impact.
If you have one problem, the impact is usually fatal.
If you have many problems, the impact is not as damning.
– Osasu Oviawe
Who’s the first person you want to share a win with?
Who’s the first person you want to share a fall with?
Who’s the person you share everything with?
Who’s the person you can share anything with?
Who runs to you with their wins?
Who runs to you with their falls?
Those are your people. Prioritize them.
– Osasu Oviawe
Leave any table that silences your voice.
And you will realize that the table offered only noise.
– Osasu Oviawe
I pray I make it worth it for everyone I love and everyone that loves me.
– Osasu Oviawe
All patterns lead to an end.
All ends have a pattern.
It’s easier to recognize a pattern from the end.
You don’t need to be at the end to see the pattern.
Just study endings that came before, and all will be laid bare.
– Osasu Oviawe
Follow your own advice.
Easier said than done.
But if you learn to do what is easier to say, you will find ease in life.
– Osasu Oviawe
Love is beautiful until it’s not.
It is sweet until it hurts.
Love is all things, including the “but.”
It is forever, even when it hurts.
– Osasu Oviawe
Stephanie talks to God about everything.
Brittany talks to God about the important things.
Who is more intimate with God?
Let your answer reshape your conversations with God.
– Osasu Oviawe
The problem is you care too much.
So much so that you are strangling the joy out of caring.
There is a healthy amount of detachment required toward things you care about.
A simple way to tell when you have tipped over with care is your level of suffering.
When the thing you care about makes you suffer, it is a signal to step back a little.
If you don’t understand the signal, that suffering will become regret.
If you understand the signal, that suffering will become a lesson.
– Osasu Oviawe
