Ephesians 5:33
However, let each one of you love his wife as himself, and let the wife see that she respects her husband.
Homily:
Husbands, avoid what drains the love you have for your wife, and embrace what nurtures that love.
Wives, avoid what drains the respect you have for your husband, and embrace what nurtures that respect.
If there is one thing you should avoid, it is adultery. It drains both love and respect.
If there is one thing you should embrace, it is empathy. It nurtures both love and respect.