We spend so much time trying to improve our space for “important” visitors. People that spend an infinitessimal amount of time in our space. People that have alternatives to our space.
We do this because we believe these “important” visitors have magnitude and can dictate direction. So we spend disproportionate resources to look good and acceptable to them.
What if we treat those that reside with us daily as the “important ” people? What if we spend all our time trying to improve the space they live in? People that choose to spend most of their time in our space. People that ignore all other alternatives to be in our space.
Is it possible that the people who reside with us have a greater magnitude and stronger influence on our direction? What if we spent all our resources to make them feel happy being here? What if we treated those that accept us (without preconditions or posturing) with the greatest respect?
We have an alternative. Always remember that.
– Osasu Oviawe