We work to reduce friction in the attainment of what we most desire. We work to achieve an end, a reason for being.
That end might be wellbeing for self, others or all.
The income from work is not the reason we work. It is a means to attaining the reason. We do not fear losing work, work always exists. We fear losing the means.
And there is no reason to fear losing the means, as there are alternative means. Money is not the only means. It is the most common, but not the only means.
To find alternatives, we must first prioritise the end we desire, over the means. It is difficult to see alternative means, when we mistake the means for the end.
Some people think relationships are better when money is not a source of friction. Whether it is a relationship with your children, your friends, your partner or your God, giving money only reduces the friction, if those you seek to reduce friction with, see it as a sacrifice you’re making, and not as a transaction.
A means that can replace money in many relationships is actually your time. Many people know that the greatest sacrifice you make is where you choose to commit your time. Complain all you like about work, but when those around you see the time you devote to it, leaving no time for them, they know that you prioritise the means over the end. As such, the means no longer serves to reduce, but increase friction, because it is trying to replace the end.
Remember your reason for being. Remember your reason for work. Keep it ever before you, and never replace an end with a means.
This is an advice to self. Please ignore it if it does not apply to you.
– Osasu Oviawe