Dim the lights

When you unplug or lose the power to a laptop, the screen goes slightly dim. A sign that the computer has gone on energy savings mode, to stay on longer. It takes quite some adjusting to, for you to keep working. You can also disable energy savings and go right back up to the brightness level you desire, but the trade-off is that you will lose battery power faster. Unless you are sure that power is only temporarily unavailable, it is wiser to keep working with energy savings mode.

When some people lose their jobs, they do not go into energy (money) savings mode to stay on longer until revenue is restored. And in most cases, people underestimate the lag it will take before restoration of revenue.

In fact, I have seen quite a few people make needless purchases, to prove to those not even watching, that they are doing even better without “that job” – new car, new house, vacations. They want to keep up appearances. Really?

That is like starting to play background music and putting the speakers on max volume, when you’re on energy savings mode.

The people that I have found as examples on how to manage job loss, dimmed the screen lights. They made it clear to themselves and their loved ones that appearance no longer matters. Going through this time without shutting down was far more important. Some of them cut some treasured luxuries and some went for much lower paying jobs without any pomp and pageantry. They understood that this will only be a temporary loss of revenue if they can keep going for much longer.

Loss of a job or loss of revenue is not easy for anyone, especially when you are a breadwinner in a family. But it helps to go through your 5 stages of grief (denial, anger, bargaining, depression and finally, acceptance) fast, and move on with a new normal. It might not be better than where you were, but it is good enough to keep you going until you catch another high tide.

– Osasu Oviawe

Our job

Acts 11:1-18
Now the apostles and the brethren who were in Judea heard that the Gentiles also had received the word of God. So when Peter went up to Jerusalem, the circumcision party criticized him, saying, “Why did you go to uncircumcised men and eat with them?” But Peter began and explained to them in order: “I was in the city of Joppa praying; and in a trance I saw a vision, something descending, like a great sheet, let down from heaven by four corners; and it came down to me. Looking at it closely I observed animals and beasts of prey and reptiles and birds of the air. And I heard a voice saying to me, `Rise, Peter; kill and eat.’ But I said, `No, Lord; for nothing common or unclean has ever entered my mouth.’ But the voice answered a second time from heaven, `What God has cleansed you must not call common.’ This happened three times, and all was drawn up again into heaven. At that very moment three men arrived at the house in which we were, sent to me from Caesare’a. And the Spirit told me to go with them, making no distinction. These six brethren also accompanied me, and we entered the man’s house. And he told us how he had seen the angel standing in his house and saying, `Send to Joppa and bring Simon called Peter; he will declare to you a message by which you will be saved, you and all your household.’ As I began to speak, the Holy Spirit fell on them just as on us at the beginning. And I remembered the word of the Lord, how he said, `John baptized with water, but you shall be baptized with the Holy Spirit.’ If then God gave the same gift to them as he gave to us when we believed in the Lord Jesus Christ, who was I that I could withstand God?” When they heard this they were silenced. And they glorified God, saying, “Then to the Gentiles also God has granted repentance unto life.”

Homily:

It is naive to assume that the word of God only finds fertile ground in a particular people – Catholic, Christian, Pastor, Monk…

If God is only God to those that believe in Him, then he is not God. A limited god is a creation of man, a god that only acts for people that are like us.

The God I serve created all things and all people. And all are one in him.

He desires that we flourish by building a relationship with Him, turning to Him regularly as a door to what is possible and as a mirror to who we are.

It is not our job to judge or discriminate between the people he created. Judgment limits creation.

It is our job to love the people he created and allow Him use our hands to draw their hearts to Him.