In a world filled with goals, visions, targets, objectives and aims, you would expect that we will find happiness just after achievement, but that is when emptiness is revealed.
To distract from the emptiness, a new goal, vision, target, objective and aim is required. On and on goes the rat race, until if you’re lucky, you hack the system, and find what exists as both a journey and an end.
Post nut syndrome is a good example of post achievement syndrome. A situation in which a human feels empty just after orgasm. All events leading to that orgasm seems to be filled with desire, vigor and excitement. And just after the goal of climax is achieved, there is a big fall from that high and the emptiness of past exertion reveals itself. But not all sexual experiences end with this emptiness.
What is the difference in those experiences that do not end in emptiness? Sex was not the goal, but a part of the process of building a deep relationship.
Building a deep relationship is both a journey and an end.
At any present moment, you can draw inspiration from where you have been, where you are and where you are going.
Build a life that is both a journey and an end.
– Osasu Oviawe