Let us try something together.
A day without complaining.
Just one day. From start to end without a word of complaint.
Permit yourself to have any conversation, except one in which you complain.
Notice the people you will have to avoid, the people you will have to be quiet with, the places you will have to avoid, the places that will make you uncomfortable, the tension this activity will bring, the unease that will swell within.
We have been conditioned to complain. It is our way of dealing with the fact that most of what comes to us is out of our control.
Let us take back control of our narrative. Our words create our reality. Let us start with a day. A day without complaints. Then maybe we can build on it and see where it leads.
– Osasu Oviawe