Serendipity

Today, I reflected on my refusal to renew the business plan on my WordPress account.

What started as a limitation from the Central Bank of Nigeria on the spending limit on cards, turned into quite an experiment for me.

There were a lot of reminders from the WordPress team on renewal. I engaged one of the “Happiness Engineers” (that’s what customer care reps working in WordPress are called), and he told me point blank that I would lose most formatting, some blog posts and some capabilities if the account is not renewed. He also added that my domain osasuoviawe.com would now be read as osasuoviawe.wpcomstaging.com since it is hosted on WordPress.

I decided to brace for impact by backing up all my blog posts.

True to the Happiness Engineer’s words, I lost most formatting and my address now reads osasuoviawe.wpcomstaging.com. But all my blog posts were still available. Not so bad after all.

Then the discount offers started rolling in. 50% discount this week, 40% discount in 2 weeks time, 20% discount after another 2 weeks, and back to 40% discount now running. I wonder why they did not offer me a discount before my subscription expired. Actually I do not wonder why. I know why.

The whole scenario has made me deeply think about my next steps with this blog. If I build it into what my vision is, I cannot afford to skip an annual payment, or else, I would lose all formatting and have to start from ground zero again. It means this blog must be able to pay for itself indefinitely.

Another insight from the experience is “discounts are always available.” Maybe I should have asked the Happiness Engineer. I will now always ask for a discount. You never know.

I am thankful for serendipitous experiences that hold many lessons.

Family

Religion helps with perspective and meaning.

Whether in your lowest low or your highest high, religion provides a context that helps with acceptance.

The first religion of every human is the family. Every other religion copies the ideals of the family, and adds some fanfare around it.

To raise balanced humans a foundation of family values is required.

For example, the value of respect is first learnt in the family. If you do not learn it in the family, every other place that tries to teach it provokes resistance. To understand that respect is to be given, independent of position, you first need to be exposed to the best in people at an early age.

Family is the unit of love. Nurture it.

– Osasu Oviawe