Human connections shape you in subtle ways, but sometimes, dramatically.

No one stays the same after drinking from the spring of any human connection – relational, transactional or transitional.

The human connections you make also snowball into the groups you identify with, and the groups you identify with set limits to your being.

Luckily, at the first instance, we get a vibe as to who is here to walk with us, and who is here to trample. It is wise to pay attention to the early signs.

Embrace those who energise you, and give them your most valuable asset that does not scale – time.

Avoid those who drain you, and starve them of your time.

PS: Treat mixed signals as a bad sign, flee.

– Osasu Oviawe