The one who asks for critical feedback is actually asking for praise, because if critical feedback is what they truly desire, they do not need to ask. Reality offers it freely daily.

Only the naive treat that invitation lightly. They will listen, thank you, and raise their guard around you.

The one who doesn’t ask for critical feedback is sorely in need of it, because their back is bent over at their work and you are their reality check.

Only the naive treat their silence as a defense. They will listen, probe, and take action to improve.

Most asks are selfish, and you must understand this to navigate life.

– Osasu Oviawe