If you insist on helping someone that does not want to be helped, you are only prioritising the desires of your ego above the sanctity of another human.
Stop forcing your solutions on others. All solutions carry within them, new problems. The one who must apply your solution, must also bear the weight of its associated problems (known or unknown).
Understanding this will help you show more empathy.
Your way might be the shorter way, yet those you are trying to help might not want to arrive early, for reasons unique to them. And that is fine.
– Osasu Oviawe