My upbringing

Today, I read a quote that expressed a thought I was trying to share with a mentee just last week.

“I belong everywhere I go, no matter where it is, or who I am with, as long as I never betray myself. The minute I become who you want me to be, in order to fit in and make sure people like me, is the moment I no longer belong anywhere.” – Brené Brown

I immediately shared it with him.

Growth leads us into new spaces. New spaces ignore previous growth. To own new spaces, you must own what has always nourished you, and test what sustains the new space if it works for you.

I am thankful for my upbringing. It helps me feel comfortable in any space, because I am first comfortable in my skin.

Design

Churches fill up from the back.

Concerts fill up from the front.

Churches are monologue engagements.

Concerts are multilogue engagements.

Churches are obligatory.

Concerts are voluntary.

Churches that fill up from the front are designed like concerts.

Concerts that fill up from the back are designed like churches.

– Osasu Oviawe