A map is a good guide, but it is nothing compared to your experience of the reality it is trying to communicate.
That thing you fear is not as bad as your mind makes it to be. It might be better or worse.
That thing you desire is not as good as your mind makes it to be. It might be better or worse.
The experience of a thing is different from our mind map of it.
It is best to save the worrying about a thing until you experience it. In the meantime, use what is in front of you. It is your most loyal servant in preparation for what may come after.
– Osasu Oviawe