Toxic relationships are like viruses. Once contracted, they stay with you forever. You can reduce the toxicity load, but it always lurks, waiting for any weakness to exploit.
It is better to avoid them.
But like viruses, it is impossible to avoid all kinds altogether. That’s why it’s wise to build immunity—get a jab. A small dose prepares you for the real deal.
Observe those around you in toxic relationships. Observe those who have survived them. Observe those who have been destroyed by them.
Notice the pattern. Now, see where your choices align with the pattern. Then, break the pattern.
Shatter it in ways even you cannot fix.
It will save your life.
—Osasu Oviawe