Pray that you do not have a good boss in a bad job.
You will be surprised at how long you will put up with the job.
Pray that you do not have a bad boss in a good job.
You will be surprised at how quickly you will check out.
Pray that you do not have a bad spouse from a good family.
You will be surprised how long you will put up with the marriage.
Pray that you do not have a good spouse from a bad family.
You will be surprised at how quickly you will check out.
In jobs, bosses influence your perception.
In marriage, families influence your perception.
Jobs are short-term in nature, with limited agency for choosing bosses. Jobs show an unmistakable pattern. You can and must choose jobs that help you manage the vagaries of bosses.
Marriages are long-term in nature, with limited agency for choosing spouses. Families show an unmistakable pattern. You can and must choose families that help you manage the vagaries of spouses.
– Osasu Oviawe